DEPTHS OF EVIL Wife exposed evil husband’s affair on Reddit before he murdered her and their six kids & burned down family home

A WIFE outed her evil adulterous husband on Reddit before he killed her and their six children then burnt their home to the ground.

Amanda “Mandy” Karolkiewicz, 39, and her children were killed in a mass murder committed by her husband, Kristopher, 47, at their Michigan home last week.

Kristopher turned the gun on himself after massacring his entire family.

Newly uncovered Reddit posts exposed the fraught nature of the Karolkiewicz marriage, with Mandy admitting she had noticed “major red flags” in the person she married.

The posts detail bouts of marital strain, with Mandy alleging Kristopher was “sneaky” and at times physically violent.

According to Mandy, her husband had an affair with an intern at his work, which she detailed on “As One After Infidelity,” a forum for victims of infidelity.

The posts attributed to slain mother were made under the username “MandyK1179”, as verified by The Detroit News.

Prior to the alleged affair she described her family life as a “Hallmark movie”.

She said: “After about a year of self-loathing, I remember crying and looking at myself in the mirror and realising how f***ed up it was that I was the one who was living so miserably because of what he did.

“I finally realised that I had been the only person who has ever showed up for myself my whole entire life.”

She said the idea of leaving her husband was “insanely terrifying”.

She continued: “I kept telling myself, ‘I love my kids more than I hate my husband right now.’

“They have no idea – faked it till we made it.”

“He’s always had major red flags that I ignored due to my own trauma and anxious attachment.

“He was raised in a toxic family dynamic that encouraged lying about everything.”

Mandy alleged recurring infidelities, writing: “Our day-to-day lives and dynamics are truly good, until every so often now when he pulls sneaky [expletive].”

She said there were times where things had got physical between the couple in furious rows.

She details a time where she shoved Kristopher after learning of an “emotional” affair.

In 2024 she wrote: “I don’t feel bad still.

“He towers over me and destroyed me mentally. It felt like I was being assaulted and needed to fight back. I think it’s a fight or flight thing.”

“For me, ‘safety’ is the ability to trust that [he] will not get angry or defensive when I’m triggered, and will help to carry me through it,”

“We’re almost five years out, and he’s trying, but still struggles with defensiveness.

“But in general, am I happy? Yes.

“I wouldn’t say I feel safety in my emotions, because he still struggles with receiving my triggers without defensiveness, and that’s slowing down my ability to regain feelings of safety.”

The Karolkiewicz family were found dead in their home in Grand Haven on July 24.

The children were aged between five and 15.

Sheriff, Eric DeBoer said: “This is an unspeakable tragedy that we may never completely understand.”

Police were called to the lakeside property in Grand Haven Township after receiving reports of white smoke pouring from the building.

Cops revealed that some of the family were found with gunshot wounds, but did not specify which ones.

Mandy and Kristopher met at work at a beverage company in 2008 and began dating that summer, according to a parenting-oriented blog that she kept over a decade ago.

The two married in August 2009.

Mandy was a teacher remembered for going “goes above and beyond for students”.